Scarlett the easy break up, it is an urban legend. Relationships in all their glory are emotionally charged, asymmetrical and complicated. Why would one expect a break up to be any less dramatic? Anticipate, better yet, accept the uncomfortable, oft-times soul shattering loneliness of the break up. But remember – there is light and life at the end of this difficult period.
Suggested self-help break-up tome: Newton’s Laws of Motion!